Saturday, 22 November 2008

Make Your Marriage Work

What you don’t know can hurt you. {Hosea 4:6}....... My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge .

Let me share with you some habits you have to kick out of your marriage, for you to experience God's best in you maariage.

My desire is that as you become aware of some of the tricks of the devil, you can re established Christ in your home.

Sixteen Ways You May have been Destroying Your Marriage

1. When you stop to communicate openly and honestly.
2. Consistently angry, selfish, rude, and abusive.
3. When or if you refuse to forgive your spouse for any offense, no matter how small
4. Stay depressed and negative as much as possible
5. Convince your spouse that your children are far more important to you than he (she) is.
6. Spend Money foolishly and continually run up great debt
7. Be consistently lazy and refuse to do much around the house and on your job
8. Give place to addictions or annoying habits and defend your right to have them
9. Don’t care about what your spouse needs sexually as long as you get what you want.
10. Habitually look at explicit films, magazines, or advertising and compare your husband (wife) to the glorified images you see there, and especially mention others whom you find more attractive
11. Allow your heart to grow hard toward your husband (wife) and refuse to ever say “i ;m sorry” forgive me”, or i forgive you”
12. Make something other than God and your spouse your top priority.
13. Threaten to get a divorce every time something comes up between you and your spouse that needs to be worked out
14. Have affair or entertain an obsession of the heart over some one other than your husband (wife)
15. Move out of the home and don’t try to reconcile your differences
16. Give up and refuse to believe that God is a God of miracles who can restore love and hopeTaken From Praying through Deeper Issues Of Marriage: Stormie Omartian

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